Still Water Birth
Hydrotherapy is gaining increasing recognition as a homeopathic ingredient in birth planning.
Water can be included in labor and birth in a number of ways:
- showering, allowing the water to splash onto your breasts and down your belly, to help stimulate labor
- showering with your spouse to help increase oxytocin, to help stimulate labor
- foot soak to ease tension and swelling
- waterbirth
Waterbirth can take place at home, at a birth center, or in many hospitals. Contrary to its name, waterbirth not only means giving birth to your baby while you are emerged in water, it is also lesser understood to simply mean spending time soaking while in labor, whether or not the actual birth takes place while still emerged in the water.
Related: at home early pregnancy birth and at home stillbirth
Additionally, having a warm bath immediately after the birth can be soothing.
So, can a mother giving birth to her beloved miscarried or stillborn baby still enjoy the benefits of a waterbirth?
The answer? It depends on a number of very individualized and important factors, but YES, waterbirth may indeed still be a valid option.
If you have read through our birth planning materials, have consulted with your care provider, and desire to plan a waterbirth of your miscarried or stillborn baby, here are a few things to consider:
- Including Epsom Salt at the measured amount directed on the carton can be particularly advantageous, for the following reasons:
- Magnesium Sulfate is an FDA category A (good to know for mothers experiencing a threatened miscarriage).
- Magnesium Sulfate can help reduce the risk of postpartum hemorrhage, a very serious danger which can be heightened for mothers giving birth via natural miscarriage.
- Because hemorrhage is such a very serious and potentially life threatening issue for mothers experiencing pregnancy & infant loss, it is wise for you to consider that most generally during any water birth, blood released into the water can give an alarming appearance. Additionally, when you first stand up from your bath, you should do so carefully. Mothers giving birth in any trimester should never do so alone. Water and blood that has pooled in your vagina can also give an alarming appearance when you emerge from the water. Please be sure to read our information about hemorrhage because it is such a critical aspect of your experience.
- Magnesium Sulfate has been used intravenously to stall preterm labor, but its actual ability to stall labor is inconclusive. In miscarriage labor, it is already possible for labor to start and stop over a timeframe up to weeks. Knowing this is helpful in your decision making.
- Magnesium Sulfate can help fight infection because of its vasodilatation.
- Soaking for 10 minutes at a time, in warm, fresh clean water, is recommended versus prolonged time submerged in water, when using Epsom Salt or not. This also helps to prevent reabsorption of your toxins flushed during the soak, and can allow for some of the resensation to integrate into your labor.
- When you have high levels of stress, your body can deplete its source of Magnesium Sulfate, resulting in higher amounts of adrenaline production. These higher amounts of adrenaline can add to the already emotionally overwhelming experience of pregnancy and infant loss, and can even pose additional health risks. Soaking in a warm bath with Magnesium Sulfate can counter these dangers.
- The saline water of your soak may aid in preserving the very delicate physical form of your miscarried baby. Using a small fish net to remove fragments of your baby’s placenta from your bath may be helpful. Please see our at home birth planning for more information.
- You might also add essential oils to your bath.
- As with all birthing options, it is best to consider the ideas you might present to your trusted healthcare provider, and use this page simply as reference for conversation to gain their counsel, advanced knowledge of any contraindications and final recommendation.
Prenatal Testing & Diagnosis
While stillbirthday is not a medical website, this is a general list of information and resources related to the journey of prenatal testing. If you have been given information that there is a possibility of your baby having a particular diagnosis, even a non-fatal one compatible with life outside of the womb, it is still important to give yourself space for the authentic reactions you are facing. These can include:
- total overwhelm. The big questions of the definition of life in utero or elective abortion (TMFR – termination for medical reasons) can seem absolutely thrust upon you, and convictions or beliefs you might generally hold in regard to these questions can all seem absolutely uncertain now.
- anger. Because even if you hold to particular convictions regarding the duration of life in utero, having to even be presented with this in the first person, during a season that is intended to be full of life and joy, can seem like an abandonment or betrayal or some kind of cosmic trickery, no matter your spiritual or philosophical views.
- isolation. Isolation spiritually as mentioned above, but isolation socially as well. Who can you trust to share with that you are facing such an overwhelming and personal time? Please know you are not alone.
- shame. Shame can storm in big and fast. You might have heard that chromosomal differences are specifically due to the mother’s egg, for example. Shame for not having an idyllic pregnancy can haunt you at a time that you’re already so perplexed by what you’re facing.
- grief. The only healthy way to move forward with what you’re facing is if those who love and support you give you the space to your authentic reactions to what you are facing. You need to know, to really know, that you have permission to explore the meaning, purpose and path of your journey, surrounded by validation and support for your healing. You can learn more at our Living Grief article.
The diagnosis – or, the possibility of a diagnosis – can be a very confusing time. Different tests might be offered, and these might be looking for different things. Here are some tests that might be offered.
Screenings & Diagnostic Testing
Screening tests reveal a probability of a diagnosis simply based on markers. This does not give a conclusive answer, only a probability. Diagnostic tests look specifically for certain diagnoses and can often give a more definitive answer, although mothers can attest to false outcomes with either form of testing.
Screening
A blood serum screening looks for alpha-fetoprotein, inhibin A, plasma protein A,estriol, and human chorionic gonadotropin. This combined with the mother’s age and an ultrasound looking for specific “markers”, or, indications of a particular diagnosis, can offer some information for you.
Secondary Complications
Higher Level Ultrasounds may not discover but do try to determine possible secondary diagnoses that may be more possible given a first diagnosis. Once an initial diagnosis is established, you may be overwhelmed to discover that secondary complications may present themselves, which you may learn about prenatally or may become more prominent later in your baby’s life. These secondary medical issues may compound an already overwhelming, weary, isolating and shaming time. Please, please be gentle on yourself, and please, please, go slow. Get support around you to unpack any and everything you’re facing.
For example, in a diagnosis of Down Syndrome, you may learn that there is an increased possibility of medical conditions such as heart defects or Leukemia. As you look for answers and for support, please consider that one person’s journey with a diagnosis may include more, or more severe, medical conditions than you might be facing with your baby.
Diagnostic Testing
This can include chorionic villus sampling (CVS), amniocentesis, or the newer, MaterniT21 testing.
Here are some resources for encouragement for your journey.
From Stillbirthday
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- TMFR (termination for medical reasons)
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http://www.mcdmaine.org
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