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I Am a DOLIU M0M

What is DOLIU?

Doliu, pronounced \’yo͞o\ is a Romanian word, literally meaning mourning, which traces to  old Russian dolium, an earthenware cask or vessel, often large enough to hold an adult within it. 

Dolium, pronounced \ˈdōlēəm\ has its roots in Latin condolēre \kən-ˈdōl\, which translates as with pain.

 

So, let’s break this down a little bit.

 

Dolium means a jar which can contain an adult.  When you picture a jar this large, it might seem quite impressive on the part of the jar, but when I envision a jar this large, with a person inside so as to compare the size of the jar, I think about that person.  Aside from the jar being so large so as to engulf the entire adult person, do you give extra room in your mind for the person involved?  If even for just the moment the person is inside, I imagine quite a cramped quarter.  Keep that in mind.

When a person isn’t crawling inside for a size comparison demonstration, what were these used for?  How would you get your arm inside to retrieve whatever was held within it?

Dolium, or in Greek pithos, were containers that, while being used, were often held in pits for stabilization.  So a pit was dug, the pithos placed, so that it was while these vessels were in the pits, that they were accessible for others to reach what was inside.

These drums were used for holding precious sustenance, such as oils or grains or wine.  According to a little research, these drums could become discarded.  But what would become of a vessel so large and so heavy that it took a gathering of people to circle and lift it?  These earthen jars would become coffins.

I find it interesting, that a jar to hold life and nourishment would become what was considered discarded, and then hold death.

Interesting, also, that such a jar has so many names connected with bereavement: mourning, with pain.

The jar, even while bringing nourishment, while giving life, was known intrinsically for being with pain.

Here at stillbirthday, we share an acrostic called M0M: Mothering Our Mourning.  It means that we recognize that our journey requires we nurture our grief by giving ourselves permission to throw tantrums as children, to shout, to scream, to get messy and roll around in the dirt.  Sometimes figuratively, but maybe sometimes literally too.  But in mothering our mourning, we have to give it something else too, and that is discipline.  We have to put some safe frames around our journey.  We have to practice and learn self control.  To be respectful, to offer forgiveness to others, to, in our own time and in our own way, let our mourning grow up a little bit.  Mature our mourning.  And, in the acrostic M0M, it is not an oh in the center, but a zero.  Because the most profound growth possible comes from the pit, it comes from moving the dirt away and digging underneath to what may be hiding.  Making space.  Honoring that hole in the earth, the place that is, exactly because barrenness is what we see.  We make space, to fill it with life.

So when I say I am a DOLIU M0M, you now have a pretty good idea of what I’m talking about.

But, there’s more.

I want to really, really challenge you today as you read this.  And, you may need to read it more than once to fully grasp it.

I’m calling upon you to have eyes to see the fullness of one.single.moment.

Not what happens from that moment or any of the subsequent reactions or events or decisions made because of it.

But just, one, single, moment.

Can we do this together?

The moment in which a mother is faced with having to decide.  The moment a mother is forced to decide how long her baby will live.

Not how she decides or what she decides.  Before that.

It’s the having to decide at all.

 

Will her boyfriend really kill her?

Will this ectopic pregnancy really kill her?

Will this diagnosis really be fatal to her baby?

 

I was 21, and I found myself with cold gel on my abdomen and crinkly paper beneath me in a planned parenthood.  I saw the zoomed out circle on the outdated computer monitor.  I saw the disengaged glare in the eyes of the stranger and I heard her cold, unimpressed question.  “What are you going to do about it?”  These are the words that confirmed my pregnancy, and these are the words that were followed a single moment later by my decision.  I left the planned parenthood with my decision and later, I lived out that decision as I entered into a battered women’s shelter with my young son.

In “choosing life” I nearly lost mine.

And then I wrapped myself all up in what my infant faith taught me about life in the womb and I cast my condemnation onto others for a very long time.  I allowed my most selfless moment to fester into the ugliest kind of self righteousness all in the name of legalism and I thought I was pleasing my God because I stamped His name on my actions and I thought I was doing it right.

An inspection of fruit meant to be as far away as anything remotely depicting a break of the law of religion and, under the self righteousness was sheer terror that I might not pass this inspection.  I had to.  I couldn’t lose this faith, too.  It is all I had to stand on.

Murder is defined as killing with a forethought of malice, and murder is how elective abortion is defined as we cry out to defend life in the womb.  Murder is not the correct terminology when a mother doesn’t sustain a full pregnancy until the live birth of her baby.

When looking for a dictionary definition of abort – not abortion, but abort – the very first definition in multiple dictionaries is in reference to termination of a pregnancy which results in unviable offspring.  Yet, the word abortion in the obstetrical context is derived from the term used in, for example, air craft, which is to abort a mission and go back to base.

Then one might take some time to define what it means to have the mission in the first place, what physical as well as mental preparation, intention, course charting and goals in mind it takes for a pilot to set off on a mission, and subsequently, what it means for that pilot to turn around, to go back to base or to retreat and go back home.  None of these depictions are correct when a mother doesn’t sustain a full pregnancy until the live birth of her baby.

Abort in the aeronautical sense, then, is really, to quit.   Can a mother quit being a mother via elective abortion?  Does elective abortion forfeit motherhood?  Does it undo or turn around her pregnancy?  Because abort doesn’t mean to just stop in mid air like a hover aircraft, but it literally means to go back to the beginning.  The involution of the uterus postpartum is not an undoing.

In pregnancy, there is no undoing.  If quitting means to resign from position, this hearkens the depiction of a mother choosing an adoption plan for her baby, sacrificially granting another individual to share in the title of mom.  She is then, in a sense, resigning from this title.  Does this mean she is quitting on her child?

Quitting is an inappropriate term for adoption and abortion is an inappropriate term for not sustaining a full pregnancy until the live birth of her baby.  Because neither is a giving up and neither is an undoing or going back to the beginning.

When the dolium were given up on, when they were considered discarded, they held the remains of life.  They were known as being with pain.

Fetal microchimerism, beginning at approximately four weeks gestation, is a cellular imprint of the baby, of the pregnancy.  From the most microscopic, fundamental, foundational perspective, there is literally no undoing or going back in pregnancy.  The reality of us as people, as God’s most personal, valuable creation, is this solid, this constant, this unbreakable, this certain.   Maybe you fear your life has little meaning, and you wonder if you’ll be remembered after death, if you matter.  We do.  Each of us.  Intrinsically.  This is the undoable truth.

So let me digress and bring you to the point.

Hold your values in front of you, and really inspect them.  Not only where they derived from, but how they’ve been influenced, and what they ultimately result in.  There is substantial value to speaking to the inherent worth of life in the womb and we need to know about prenatal nutrition, health, and even bonding in the womb, because these things are true and good.  These things shape who we are and who we become.

But when a mother shares with me that she has been faced with the decision of duration of life in utero, I will not qualify my offering of love to her on the condition that she faced such a decision in the reactions that I might or even that I might wish for her.  Because sin literally means to fall short, and we all fall short.  Because love covers a multitude of these fallings, and it is when we are in the pits, that we are accessible to be reached.

In speaking for God and in speaking for life in the womb, we become so focused on the reactionary course and make our conditional love based on performance.  In so doing, we forget completely the very single moment the mother was faced with such a decision, and instead try to slice this moment out of reality, by telling her through our self righteous expectation of performance that there was no choice to begin with.

Well, the truth is, being faced with the decision of duration of life in utero, it really isn’t a choice.  Choice means the power to choose between more than one possibility.  And by attaching choice to abortion what these are collectively saying is that a mother has the power to choose to undo her motherhood.  It is literally impossible.

And so we cheer for the idea of a mother choosing to be aware that she cannot undo the reality of her child, and we sneer for the idea of a mother choosing to be unaware that she cannot undo the reality of her child.

When a mother reacts to being faced with the decision of the duration of life in utero by not completing the duration of the pregnancy to its fullest, she can face tremendous psychospiritual and/or social issues – some of which have been proven through biophysical research to be alleviated should she choose to face the duration of the pregnancy instead.  It is important to honor her baby and to honor her, by sharing these truths with her.*

These can include feeling distanced or isolated or shamed by her faith or spiritual connections, and requires a broader understanding of the challenges of such things as doctrine.  These can include feeling distanced from or shamed by other social constructs, including family, spouse, and other loved ones.

When a mother reacts to being faced with the decision of the duration of life in utero by completing the duration of the pregnancy to its fullest, she too can face tremendous, tremendous challenges on many levels.  Even while there may be some  real health advantages to this course, including a longer tenure of bonding, these don’t undo the moment(s) in which she was presented with the decision to begin with.

What is it like, to even be faced with the question?

To even have to ask yourself, what am I going to do?

To have the empty eyes peering at you over the brim of her glasses with the calculatedly vague circle of life on the dusty computer screen, asking you, “What are you going to do about it?”

What is it like to have to meet this question in your darkest, most vulnerable and intimate space?   And have this question answered already by others who dictate for you, by religious expectation or by violent attacks against your life?

There is war in this moment.  In this very moment, with a seemingly offhand question by the disinterested professional with the name tag.

The duration of life in utero.  DOLIU.

I have met this moment.

If you have too, you may have hidden battle scars, just from this moment, however you reacted to it.  Because doliu literally means pain, all by itself.  May you find yourself encircled by those who enter into your pithos, your mourning, arms reaching in, who touch you with the anointing oils and living waters of love.

Your moment of meeting doliu may have been overlooked, suppressed, blocked out.

But I remember.

And you are loved.

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stillbirthday CONNECT app

 

Stillbirthday is so entirely excited to announce that we are officially creating an app!

ALL advertisement & sponsorship inquiries need to know how you can be part of this while promoting your organization and work here at stillbirthday!

Take a peek at what it’s looking like:

 

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Functionality:

1.  A database collection of care providers and their basic contact info.
2.  A database collection of bereaved individuals/families and basic contact info.
3. Search for and return a list of care providers matching search criteria.
4. Plotting care providers on a map of the world.
5. Showing bereaved individuals which care providers are currently online.
6. Provide a private chat/communication channel between both parties.

To Include:

As a doula: birth plans for each gestation.  Photos of what to expect at each gestation at birth.  NICU resources, national  probono resources for clients (photographers, NICU photographers).  Questions for clients to ask at each gestation regarding ability to take baby home/burial info.  List of major perinatal diagnoses and complications of birth.  Quick chat window for doulas that other SBD can log into, and be notified if there is a pending post/question.

As a mom or loved one: explanations of all birth methods, including for example D&C or D&E and step by step what to expect (both for clients and as a doula)
Quick links to parent resources (the SBD for parents section stuff)
Quick link to SBD doulas, maybe with a location circle (range where we serve)

And, the SBD CONNECT app will have full functionality to grow and serve even better as we continue to grow.

Access:

The first example that comes to mind for the power of such an app is this:
A mother attends her regularly scheduled ultrasound appointment, alone.  At the appointment, she learns that her baby is not alive, and there she is, alone, and devastated.  She may have a pregnancy app on her smartphone, one that gives her updates about the gestational growth of her baby by week, and tips for full term live childbirth.  The app doesn’t talk about the possibility of loss.  There she is, alone, with only her phone.  Maybe then, or maybe later, she will uninstall the app.  If then, while still in the app store, there can be an opportunity for her to find stillbirthday.  To find hope, dignity, and healing.

The SBD CONNECT app will be available for all Android and Apple devices.

CONNECT with us about our APP!

We’ll be announcing even more details about the app as they emerge, but right now I want to offer a tremendous THANK YOU to the SBD doula class of April 2014 – our current session – for their creativity to generate such an opportunity for connection as this, for their brainstorming and collaboration to grow the momentum for it to become created, and, for their networking and sharing the idea with their loved ones.  Ultimately, it is a bereaved father, the husband of a soon-to-be SBD doula, who is creating the stillbirthday CONNECT app!

Do you have an idea you’d like to see included in this new and extremely valuable way to get connected prior to, during or after birth in any trimester?  Use the form and tell us about it.

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Help stillbirthday CONNECT!

Even with the tremendous generosity of Gil himself in creating, launching and maintaining our app, the reality of it isn’t free.  We need to raise $5,000 to make the stillbirthday CONNECT app a real, functioning part of our growing support and ability to serve every family.  Because one of our longstanding statements is this:

Every mother has the right to choose to have a doula.  Every, mother.  For birth, in any trimester.

Those who give at:

  • {Level 01} $5 increments each will be entered into one surprise giveaway item.
  • {Level 02} $50 level will be announced, with a business or blog link if you have one, on our facebook page.
  • {Level 03} $100 level can hold a business logo or personal photo here on the page.
  • {Level 04} $250 level can hold a business logo or personal photo on the right sidebar of our website for 3 months.
  • {Level 05} $500 level can hold a business logo or personal photo on the right sidebar of our website for 6 months.

All financial supporters will have first access to our news, updates, contribution ideas and more via email.  This is an incredible advertisement opportunity for you!

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Gil shares in his own words:

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A man can be many important things in this life…hard-working provider, loving husband, and attentive father. Society generally supports and even encourages these roles among men. But one role most men are never prepared for and one that society almost completely ignores, is that of a bereaved father.

 

Losing a child is something no one should ever have to experience, but too many couples do go through this terrible tragedy. Until it visits you personally, understanding how life-changing infant loss can be, is something few can fathom. After our first son was born in 2004, we experienced our first miscarriage in 2006. This was to be our first of four miscarriages that would forever change the course of our lives.

 

Like most families that go through a miscarriage, we assumed this was just one of those rarely spoken of ‘risks’ involved in pregnancy. It was certainly not surprising to me personally, since I had experienced the loss of my unborn sister before my only brother was born, so miscarriage was something I had worked through as a young boy. But my role had changed dramatically. I was no longer an observer, someone connected to the event but still on the outside of the ‘inner-circle’. Now I was on the inside and it was different.

 

We conceived again in 2008 and our second healthy boy was brought into this world. Then our fourth pregnancy in early 2010 ended in a miscarriage when our 12 week ultrasound revealed no fetal heartbeat. This one hit harder. We were shocked and disappointed beyond belief. Not again. We recovered and tried again later in 2010. Another miscarriage. And another in the summer of 2011.

 

In the midst of these losses, we found strength in each other and in the hope that because we are children of a risen Savior, these deaths were not forever, were not the final word on the lives of our four children we would never hold in our arms in this lifetime. We know that we will be reunited in eternity with our dear children and despite the pain and questions we were experiencing then, our Lord had a purpose for all of this. Out of the struggle of our miscarriages and efforts to comfort one another and find answers, we began to find that purpose. Marcia was moved to start a local support group for pregnancy and early infant loss and with the help of her friend Amanda, One Moment was born. Death and pain gave birth to life and comfort.

 

Our pregnancy journey was not to end there, and in the summer of 2012, after much holistic effort to bring Marcia to optimum health, we conceived again. This time was different, we both felt it, though careful to keep our emotions in check. In June of 2013, our perfect and healthy little girl, our rainbow baby, was born. It was time to be a daddy to another of my precious children.

 

Through this terrible, beautiful journey, I was called upon to be a comforter, encourager, friend, companion, helper, lover, confidant, and defender to my precious wife. This journey served to knit us closer like no other life experience in our eleven years of marriage.profilePic
It has deepened both of our faiths and shown us a side of ourselves we had not met yet. Our journey through multiple-child losses has awakened a desire to support and care for others that have or will travel this dark and desolate road. We have come through ‘the other side’ and we can now better walk with those that are still traveling, knowing that there is ‘the other side’.

 

Thank You to:

  • Toby (level one)
  • Natalie Welanetz (level one)

 

A Loss for Two Mothers

Told by: Chris

My wife and I met in college, and like a storybook romance, fell in love.

Unlike most couples, we knew in advance that we would have a difficult time in growing our family, so as we set out to buy our first home together, we compared neighborhoods with the best likelihood of adoption to fit our needs.

And, it was not easy.

So we lived in our apartment, waiting impatiently for the day to grow our home and grow our family.

We watched our friends moving into homes.

We watched our friends getting pregnant.

We watched our friends having babies.

We kept waiting.

Eventually, we turned our efforts to medical assistance.

We have a special friend and a brilliant doctor who both gave everything they had – about literally – for us to grow our family.

After years, after incredible debt, we were finally pregnant!

The next nine months were sheer joy – specialist appointments, baby clothing shopping, feeling the congratulations of our loved ones.

The day that we learned we were having a son, it felt like the biggest day of my life.  Of my life!

We were, finally, a family.

We chose the name Kayin.  A name that means we have waited a long time.  It sort of reminds me of “cayenne”.  A speckle of fire.  He’ll have to be.

And then, just days from Kayin’s due date, something happened.  My wife woke up, rubbing her beautiful belly.

Over breakfast, she sat at her familiar posture, hand over Kayin.

She looked worried, though, so I kissed her forehead and asked her what was bothering her – already sensing it might have to do with our baby, somehow.  Maybe worried about the birth, I shrugged.

No, she told me she hadn’t felt him moving yet that morning.

The words somehow opened a dam, and panic poured over her.

We moved to the sofa and sat together, hands on Kayin, and waited.

And waited.

And, waited.

The waiting all over again, bringing fears under the surface, the kind of longstanding fears I’ve secretly held for years.

I think we were different people who first sat on those cushions that day than the two who rose from them.

Suddenly things went from slow to whirring fast.

Dashing through the hallway, trying to find shoes.  Phone.  Keys.

Calling loved ones, running out to the street.

Slipping into the car.  Whizzing through traffic.

Fast, fast, fast, toward that red sign, the red sign that spoke what we could not – Emergency.

Steps meeting pavement, a walk that is more like a sprint.

Wheelchair to the maternity level.

Machines beeping.

Nurses talking.

Shoes squeaking on shiny floor.

“What is happening?  Is our baby OK?”

Silence.

Silence.

Silence.

Waiting, to know what this means.

Kayin is dead.

And the whole world broke open.

The floor looks much closer now.  I see the black flakes in the tile.

The black is closing in, I am being swallowed up, swallowed up by the fullest emptiness of my entire life.

Now I’m the one in the wheelchair, but I don’t really understand this yet.

The ocean is in my eyes.

After a few hours, or maybe it was a few years, I’m told that I have to leave my family.

Somehow, the demons who haunt me found audible voice to my greatest fear.  Hearing these words dropped me into an abyss I didn’t know could be possible when already at the bottom of the ocean.  My fear found a crack in the ocean floor, and it opened up to this new hell.

The words are repeated.  To make sure I hear them.  I don’t know that I did ever really hear them, but somehow my inner mind, still working, knew how to translate the words into the searing message that cut to my soul.  And my body responded.

I have to leave my family.

Lightening flashed.

Thunder rose from my gut.

Fire from every corner of my body.

This is my wife.  This is my son.

I will never leave them.

“Are you family?” a nurse looks disgusted.  Is it the vomit that slipped out of my mouth and onto my shirt, or is it the words I managed to croak?

“She is my wife.  This is our son.”

I manage to catch her look and see that she is actually confused.

“I’ll have to check with the doctor.”

And there I sat, shaking the ocean away, trying to find land to steady myself.

Waiting, again.

The fate of our son’s arrival and my best friend’s support in the hardest experience of her entire life waited for the verdict of a stranger.

He is more qualified to determine my value and the value of our marriage and love than we are.

We waited.

I reached out to hold her hand.  She looked so far away, so scared, so young, so vulnerable.

I wanted to scoop her up and run away.  Run, run away to a safe place.   A safe place for our family.

That day was many days ago.

We met our son that day.  We met him, together.

We touched him and kissed him and loved him.

We love him still.

The days between that day and this day are filled with gloom.

Despair.

Fog.

My sweet wife, she doesn’t sit on that sofa anymore.

She spends her days in the rocking chair in Kayin’s room.  Holding his bear.  Looking away from me.

I don’t blame her.  I try not to look at my pain, too.

I try not to think that I destroyed her.

That my love for her, my mighty desire to do anything to please her, my wish to do anything to make her happy, did not bring her to the worst hole of hell.

Who am I, even?

What did I do?

Should we not have gotten pregnant?

Before then, should I have tried to suppress my admiration of her shiny hair and sparkly eyes, her heart to give compassion to every single creature on this planet?

Am I the walking abyss of destruction, popping open to kill the life out of such a gentle and caring person?

Every step of this road has proven to tell me that I’m wrong, that I’m gross, that I’m bad.

I’ve tried to shield her from such hurt, but she’s known.  She’s been told these things, too.

We held hands and we kept walking.

We held hope and we kept waiting.

Kayin.  We have always wanted to speak out about the wait.

Just, not ever like this.

I’m waiting, now.

Waiting for that speckle of fire to return in those beautiful mossy eyes I’ve fallen in love with.

Waiting and holding hope we can keep walking, still.

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Carrie Stine, SBD

Certified Birth & Bereavement Doula® serving Pennsylvania

email: CarrieStine.SBD@stillbirthday.info

 

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Sibling Rings

Love Wildly is going to be the slumber party of all slumber parties, a weekend of fun, courage, tears and hugs.  It is going to change your life.

And I love talking about it, because the more I do, the more people know about it and can plan on attending.

But I also know that there are so many who want to attend and who can’t.

And, more than you know, this hurts my own heart.

 

So, I’ve been thinking of some ways to include everyone, because my heart is one created for inclusivity.  It’s just the way it’s made.

 

Here are the two newest parts to Love Wildly, and I’m really, really excited about them!

 

1. M0M Letters

If you’re a M0M longing to attend Love Wildly but you’re almost entirely certain that it’s just not going to happen for you, I’ll love for you to write a letter.  Write a letter to share a little of what your journey is, and how we can hope for you.  It will be anonymous, but we’ll read your words aloud.  There is strength in numbers and your words being spoken in a circle of sisters who truly do “get it” is powerful, and I am believing with every morsel of my soul that it is a power that can reach through time and space and that reach you wherever you are at, at the precise moment you need to feel it most.  Love.

You can use the little form below, or write your letter and send it to:
The M0M Center

11117 N. Oak Trafficway

Kansas City MO 64155

2. Sibling Rings

We know the numbers of pregnancy and infant loss are huge.  We know it, because we are it.  And while Love Wildly has a very strong emphasis on us M0Ms, there’s also DaDs (we’re having a DADchelor party on the Friday night!), and, there are tons, tons, tons of surviving siblings.  Kiddos, both young and old, toddlers, teens and adults, who are siblings of children who aren’t alive, who died in gestational infancy or older.

And I think, a lot of the kiddos are hurting.  A lot.  But I also think that even the hurting ones have talents, gifts, and things that make them laugh.  I think each one has a desire, a hope, a wish.  They have a favorite toy or a dream of what they want to be when they grow up.

And these really good things can represent the person.

So, here’s the opportunity.

Sit down with your kiddos, with these “surviving siblings” – maybe they are “sunshine” kids (born before their beloved sibling not alive), or “rainbow” siblings (born after) – wherever they are in the birth order, for this activity we’re making “sibling rings”.

 

Remember making paper garland?  This is how it works:

Take brightly colored construction paper.  Let each kiddo choose his or her favorite color, actually.

Hold the paper vertically – straight up and down.

Cut a one-inch-thick strip from the top of the paper (the shortest side).

Bring out the markers, crayons, glitter, whatever you’ve got, and let each kiddo create a paper strip that depicts what they like, what they want, what they love.

 

Unlike paper garland, do NOT glue the ends together to form the circle.  We will do that later.

Gather the strips from your kiddos and, after they’ve completely dried, mail them to:

The M0M Center

11117 N. Oak Trafficway

Kansas City MO 64155

 

You will be able to see the garland decoration this will become, in the professional photos taken by Anecdotally Yours, of Love Wildly.

For M0M Letters, if you’d like you can use the quick little form below:

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Jasmine Colbourne, SBD

Certified Birth & Bereavement Doula® serving Edmonton, Alberta Canada

email: JasmineColbourne.SBD@stillbirthday.info

 

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Korah Haskell, SBD

Professionally trained birth & bereavement doula, also certified in Psychological First Aid, serving New Bedford and surrounding areas, Massachusetts

email: KorahHaskell.SBD@stillbirthday.info

 

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Love Wildly Installment Options

Love Wildly is going to be the event that represents a century of pregnancy and infant loss.  One hundred years of healing.

And, you are invited to attend.

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Because we are on the cusp of maximum attendees to the initial block of rooms at the resort, we’re opening up an installment option for mothers and families considering attending but who haven’t registered your place at Love Wildly yet.

Please observe the Love Wildly package options, and you can use the form below to make installments in either $40 (installment option 1) or $50 (installment option 2) increments toward your selected package.  From the first installment, your installments are non-refundable and are considered pending reservations.  You will need to complete your full payment for your package selection by Wednesday, October 15, 2014, for your pending reservation to become an official reservation.  The Love Wildly installment option is a resource for mothers and families who are most certain to be attending Love Wildly, and are simply interested in utilizing a payment option for it to be so.

Please be sure you’ve read our introductory page about Love Wildly, including compliance with Great Wolf Lodge guest policies as well as our no refund policy.

Click here to learn more about the weekend of making friends, laughing, crying, creating and growing together in Love Wildly.

Love Wildly package options:

  1. M0M Retreat & 2 Nights – $240.
  2. Bring a Friend (2 Retreat tickets & full lodging room) – $440.
  3. M0M & Fam (1 retreat ticket & full room) – $350.
  4. I’ll take the couch – $200.
  5. Party Bus (6 M0M retreat tickets, full room) – $600.

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