Archives for February 2013

Theresa Wellwood, SBD

Certified Birth & Bereavement Doula® serving in Stratford, Ontario Canada

Email: TheresaWellwood.SBD@stillbirthday.info

website: www.babeezeinarms.com (part of a doula collective)

client resource site: www.doula.theresa.weebly.com (for clients)

facebook: www.facebook.com/babeeze.stratford

Theresa is married to her best friend, and the mother of 5 beautiful boys. The loss of her baby Mark to a genetic condition has inspired her to follow her passion for birth. She aims to help newly grieving  families identify their own inner strength as they find their way  through healing.

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The Empathy Belly

The Empathy Belly is just one amazing item brought with to our Mother’s Workshops.

 

The Empathy Belly is a multi-component, weighted garment that will, through medically accurate simulation, enable you to feel over 20 symptoms of pregnancy, including:

  • weight gain of over 30 pounds
  • baby kicking and stroking movements
  • blood pressure, bladder pressure and other changes

It is used in various teaching settings, including teen abstinence education and for fathers to better understand what mothers feel during pregnancy.

Stillbirthday, however, uses this as a unique opportunity to enhance and deepen our shared discussion times together during our workshops.  You are not required to use it if you don’t want to, but if you are interested, it is something that can draw you back into those last moments when you were pregnant with your child; perhaps your baby was born before the third trimester and so you didn’t experience what that felt like, or, you have not become pregnant yet, or, you gave birth to a full term baby and, desire to just capture a moment, even simulated, of that time again with your baby.

Our precious sharing circle during our Mothers Workshops is a powerful time of looking at the parts of our feelings that may otherwise stay hidden or silenced.  When so much is taken, and so suddenly from us, when you decide to try on the Empathy Belly, you will realize that it is NOT your baby, and there can be a profound experience as you remove the item and have a tangible experience of moving forward.

Similarly, if you are a mother present in our sharing circle and decide that the experience of the Empathy Belly isn’t something you feel you need to try, there is also great empowerment in that decision as well.

Either way, it becomes your decision.  And whatever decision you make, can help you move into some of the deep feelings that may otherwise remain more difficult to uncover, and, can help you continue to move forward.  It’s not about you wearing it or not, it’s about you being allowed a decision – a healing decision.

Take a look at all of the wonderful things that make up our stillbirthday Mother’s Workshops – and our workshops for professionals too!

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If you are a medical or birth professional in the Kansas City area and are interested in renting the Empathy Belly for teaching purposes, email at heidi.faith@stillbirthday.info.

Mother Roasting

Mother Roasting is a sacred practice of warming the mother in the weeks after giving birth, to help keep cold from entering into the new mother’s vulnerable body.  It is a ritual we incorporate into our Mother’s Workshops.

This sacred Mother Roasting is seen throughout the world:

In Malaysia, rocks are heated in a fire, wrapped in a cloth, and placed over the new mother’s  abdomen. In other parts of Southeast Asia, new fathers traditionally light a fire that is kept burning for weeks near (or under) the mother’s bed. In still other parts of the world, sand, oil, and herbs are heated and applied to the mother in various fashions.

As part of pregnancy and infant loss Celebrating Pregnancy blessingways {Sacred Circles}, incorporating a Sacred Mother Roasting is not only validating, but has practical, physical healing implications.

As part of our Mothers Workshops , we celebrate the Sacred Mother Roasting tradition for any of the mothers in our sharing circle who desires one.  For the mother, a special near-infrared pad is placed on her abdomen, and she is bound by a gorgous Womb Wrapping (see photo).  Finally, a beautiful rainbow rebozo is bound around her abdomen, holding this healing, warm pad in place.  During this time, she is crowned as the Mother she is, while surrounded by gentle music and a safe, healing enivornment of the sharing circle.

An oil is applied and massaged onto the entire torso area.  A thin panel of natural unbleached muslin fabric is wrapped around the abdomen.  The wrapping strip is then bound over the torso panel from the pubic bone up to the breast line.  The wrap looks beautiful when on and is so comfortable.  There are no hinderances to your breathing or movement.  The binding will help you feel stronger and more supported during your afterbirth healing time.  It is advisable to begin wearing the bind 2-4 days after vaginal delivery, and usually at 2 weeks after a surgical birth.  The bind typically stays on for a few days, then is removed for bathing and you are re-bound once again.  It is recommended to wear the bind for 7 – 30 days to receive its full benefits.

    ~Gives support to the womb after birth
~Speeds up the healing process of the uterus and provides a cleansing of blood clots
~Helps to reduce common back and shoulder pain associated with nursing by improving posture
~Helps to tone up your abdominal muscles and shape your hips after childbirth
~Relieves muscular and tendon tension throughout the torso
~Relieves water retention
~Accelerates fat burning
~Improves circulation
~Excellent support after surgical births
~Provides comfort for anxiety (src)

 

 

 

 Photo belongs to the amazing Canary Lane Photography Studio and SBD doula student.

Mothers are crowned with cherry blossoms – known as a beautiful symbol for the fragility of life. 

 

About the near-infrared healing pad: Laboratory research has shown that the infrared lights grow human muscle and skin cells up to five times faster than normal. The near-infrared lights penetrate approximately 4″ and more, increases circulation and aids in the relief of hundreds of symptoms, including: Arthritis, Neuropathy, Back Pain, Bursitis, Carpal Tunnel Syndrome, Inflammatory Conditions, Ligament Tears, Muscle Pain, Orthopedic Disorders, Osteoarthritis, Post-Operative scaring, Post-Surgical Pain, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Relieves Pain, Reduces Inflammation, Accelerates Healing, Increases Circulation, Promotes Wound Healing, Stimulate the production of collagen, Stimulates the release of ATP, Increase lymphatic system activity, Edema, Increase RNA and DNA synthesis, Stimulate fibroblastic activity, Stimulates connective tissue projections, Stimulates acetylcholine release, Stimulates DNA production, growth of normal cells, and many other basic functions of living organisms. .  This pad is biologically optimal for pain treatment and holistic wound healing. It is used for wound healing applications by NASA Space Station , Navy Seals, and the US Submarine fleet.

Stillbirthday has a demonstration video available for you to view, to help in utilizing your Womb Wrap.  Just complete the form below for it to be sent to you.

Learn more about our wonderful workshops!

Related: Celebrating Pregnancy Blessingway {Sacred Circle}

 

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SBD Workshops!

Stillbirthday has several workshops!

We have a training workshop specifically for those interested or already involved in birth support in any way, and we also have workshops for couples, and workshops just for moms to get together and feel rejuvinated, based on the book The Invisible Pregnancy!

Follow this link to our complete workshop information!

Christine Goldman, SBD

 Certified Birth & Bereavement Doula® serving in New York

Email: ChristineGoldman.SBD@stillbirthday.info

Website: www.doulasofcny.com

 

 

Christine Goldman is a Christian wife and mother of 6 blessings, a little one, Hope,that awaits them in  heaven.  Her children were her inspiration to begin her doula work, and her  family and doula sisters are her inspiration to continue spreading the knowledge  and education of doula support, advocacy and a nurturing heart and spirit within  her community.  She is the owner of a doula agency in Upstate NY, is blessed to mentor new doulas, is very passionate about childbirth education and  advocaty, loves working together with her doula sisters and with  families  within her church community and Christian Health Center.

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Born in Silence

A powerful video.

Rebecca Malaka, SBD

Certified Birth & Bereavement Doula® serving in Golden, British Columbia

Email: RebeccaMalaka.SBD@stillbirthday.info

Visit Rebecca’s Doula Match listing

 

 

 


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The SBD® Doula provides support to families experiencing birth in any trimester and in any outcome.

Here at stillbirthday.info, you can learn about the SBD® Doula.