Vanishing Twin

“Vanishing Twin Syndrome” may occurs when a mother miscarries one of the twins she is pregnant with.

If the miscarriage happens in the first trimester, neither you nor your other baby should have any clinical signs or symptoms. The surviving twin usually still has an excellent probability of resulting in a full pregnancy and live birth, but it depends on the factors that contributed to the death of the other twin.

When a baby dies after about eight weeks, this baby and his or her placenta may likely be compressed from the pressure of the growth by the surviving twin; this is known as fetus papyraceus or papyrus.  Generally, what is being compressed is the water that holds the small baby’s soft structure while developing in the womb.  Your doctor may inform you that your body has “reabsorbed” this water (or the baby), which might be very painful to hear.  Because the baby’s tiny tissues are no longer alive, your body may recognize your baby as a wound and begin to heal this wound by embracing the dead tissue to prevent it from further harming your body.  You might consider something of like a scrape on your arm that your body scabs to heal.  In this way, even your womb testifies to the painful experience you are going through.

It is possible that fetus papyraceus can occur in a singleton or a multiples pregnancy.

With twins, while both twins may be delivered, you should know what to expect to see if you want to be able to see the twin that has died (his or her physical form will likely be flattened and developmentally incomplete).  If the twin died in the second or third trimester, there are increased risks to your other baby, including a possibility of having cerebral palsy and death.  These risks depend on if the babies shared a placenta, or each had their own.  For this reason, your doctor may suggest artificially inducing your labor prior to reaching full term.

You can view a photo of twins, shared by a courageous stillbirthday mother, one born alive and the other who died via fetus papyraceus, here.

Your doctor will discuss with you the possible need to induce delivery of your twins, and the likelihood of this baby’s survival.

Related Multiples Loss Situations:

  • Another way that multiples loss can present is through what is called Fetus in Fetu.  There are two theories to Fetus in Fetu.  The first is that the structure is of an embryonic multiple, and the second is known as highly teretoma, or, simply an abnormal cell structure that is not of a multiple.
  • Partial Molar Twin
  • Parasitic Multiple: this can be considered a highly offensive term to reference a multiple who may not form completely and who may pose a threat to the life of the more dominantly formed baby.
  • Unequally Conjoined Twins: is a more appropriate term for Parasitic Multiple
  • Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS), also known as Feto-Fetal Transfusion Syndrome (FFTS)
  • Twin Oligohydramnios-Polyhydramnios Sequence (TOPS)
  • Selective Reduction

 

For All Multiples Situations:

Please visit the specialized birth planning for giving birth to multiples (when one or both are still).

You are invited to share your story here as well: please remember that sharing your story at stillbirthday is a way to express your feelings and share your experiences with other mothers – it is not to diagnose, treat or answer any medical questions.

You might visit our farewell celebrations for ideas to celebrate your baby.

 

Twins or More

Also see our informational article which begins with information on Vanishing Twin, and expands to include:

  • Fetus in Fetu
  • Partial Molar Twin
  • Parasitic Multiple: this can be considered a highly offensive term to reference a multiple who may not form completely and who may pose a threat to the life of the more dominantly formed baby.
  • Unequally Conjoined Twins: is a more appropriate term for Parasitic Multiple
  • Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS), also known as Feto-Fetal Transfusion Syndrome (FFTS)
  • Twin Oligohydramnios-Polyhydramnios Sequence (TOPS)
  • selective reduction
  • You can redirect to the informative page by navigating here.

 

If you haven’t done so already, please consider transferring your medical care to a Multiples Birth Specialist.

Please visit any of our  specialized birth plans for giving birth to twins or multiples (when one or more are still) which also includes additional resources regarding multiples pregnancy.  You might also visit our rainbow birth plan, as many mothers refer to their surviving multiple/s as rainbow babies.

Are you a mother who has endured a loss or losses involving a multiples pregnancy?  Are you a surviving multiple?  You are invited to share your story here .

You might visit our farewell celebrations for ideas to celebrate your baby or babies who are not alive.

Recurrent Miscarriage or Stillbirth

and Fertility Information

This article contains general information regarding recurrent miscarriage, stillbirth, and fertility information.  If you are miscarrying right now, please be taken back to the beginning.  Or you can be taken to our threatened miscarriage article if are searching for information in a threatened or possible miscarriage, along with anecdotal information in preventing a possible miscarriage.

Enduring multiple losses can pose unique emotional challenges, whether you have surviving children or not, and whether you have surviving children or not, emotional support is extremely important.  Having a surviving child or children can make you feel as though your feelings over your losses are perhaps less valuable, and well-meaning friends can inflict unintentional harm as they pry and ask questions about your continued family planning, not knowing you may be enduring such heartbreak.  If you do not have surviving children, the journey from grief to healing can seem excruciatingly lonely, hopeless, and as though noone could understand your many feelings, including how to handle family pressures to carry on the family name or legacy, or planning your retirement years without children or grandchildren involved.

Whether a few weeks, or a few years, have passed since your first pregnancy loss, any subsequent losses are usually more emotionally devastating on both the mother and the father, and the intensity of the grief can oftentimes seem magnified.

Following subsequent losses, it can seem as though you may be trying to numb or dull the emotions out.

You may have at one time processed your feelings and felt confident that if you experience another loss, you may be more ready, more in control.  Oftentimes, it is one parent who feels this confidence, while the other parent may have doubts or fears about trying again.  You may feel guilty or embarassed for thinking you could try again, or for thinking that you could handle another loss easier.  You may feel so angry that you decide to make a definitive decision regarding birth control, or you may feel so panicked that you quickly try again.  You may wonder why it is so unfair that you have recurrent losses, and may wonder if you’ll ever complete a full pregnancy with a happy, healthy baby.  You may feel that after subsequent losses, it is best to be quiet about it, not tell anyone, and try to move on silently.

These feelings are all very common, and you really can work through them positively.

And, you are not alone.  Please consider sharing your story with us, so that another mother experiencing recurrent pregnancy loss can learn from you.

There are all kinds of support resources here at stillbirthday, from immediate support through the process of loss, to later, long term support resources.

Here are links to several different ideas and sources of information (outside links) that you might find useful.  Please discard any resource that does not find comfort in your heart.  This is not a place of imposing anyone’s position onto you in your journey, or even of endorsing any resource, but simply of presenting different opportunities for you.  It is my deepeset desire that you can find a way, a person, or a place, that you feel comfortable talking about your feelings and getting the support that you need.

I do have one gentle caution.  Non-medical or non-invasive fertility support doesn’t necessarily mean that it supports in the way that you actually need it to.  Please, consult with your trusted medical provider about the options you’re interested in pursuing.

Multiple pregnancy loss is devastating, and emotional healing is extremely important.  Please, as you grieve, and find your way to healing, be gentle with yourself.

Stillbirthday Additional Links:

Perspectives from Other Mothers:

Professional Fertility Support / Referrals

Prayers for Conception:

Identifying Primary Infertility:

Identifying Secondary Infertility:

Important Aspects and Links to Fertility Challenges:

Non-Medical Fertility Support:

Anecdotal Support:

  • Consult your trusted provider to learn more about:
  • ClaryCalm (containing Vitex)
  • Vitex
  • diindolylmethane (DIM)
  • Maca Root
  • Associated herbs, for such things as vaginal steaming – Goldenseal, Red Raspberry leaf, Ginger Root, Sasparilla, False Unicorn, Hawthorn, Borage Seed Oil, Oat Straw, Red Clover, Chaste Tree Berry, Rosemary.

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dōTERRA Clary Calm is a proprietary blend of Certified Pure Therapeutic Grade essential oils that have been traditionally used to balance hormones and manage symptoms of PMS and the transitional phases of menopause.* Clary Calm is a topical blend of clary sage, lavender, bergamot, Roman chamomile, cedarwood, ylang ylang, geranium, fennel, carrot seed, palmarosa and vitex that provides a temporary respite from cramps, nausea, hot flashes, and the emotional swings which are sometimes associated with regular hormone cycles in women.

 

Non-Medical Fertility and Healthy Links:

Nutritional Information Pertaining to Fertility:

Possible ways to increase progesterone:

  • decrease eating foods or herbs containing estrogen.
  • increase vitamin B6, vitamin C and zinc.
  • increase magnesium.
  • increase chasteberry (vitex).
  • Mexican Yam (wild yam) cream.

N0n-Traditional Family Support Resources:

Medically Assisted Conception:

Foster/Adoption:

Finding Peace with Childlessness:

International Resources

These professionals and volunteers are willing to support you right nowthrough this very difficult journey of giving birth to your baby.  This list includes birth & bereavement photographers as well as professionally trained SBD Birth & Bereavement Doulas.  The doulas listed at stillbirthday are also available to support you by attending your 6 week postpartum visit with you, so that you don’t have to face that alone.  For a state-to-state listing of support services for any time after birth, please visit the long term support section, and if you’d like to see our birth support, NICU support and bereavement support listings by location all condensed into one search, you can.

SBD Doulas can support in all birth outcomes,
including subsequent/rainbow/live births .
Find out all about what your SBD Doula can do to serve you.

Click here to go to the full US state listing of resources.

 

In 2014, we have so many international stillbirthday doulas that we began to list according to country.

 

United Kingdom SBD Doulas & other resources

Ireland SBD Doulas & other resources

Poland SBD Doulas & other resources

Canada SBD Doulas & other resources

Switzerland SBD Doulas & other resources

South Africa SBD Doulas & other resources

Germany SBD Doulas & other resources

Australia SBD Doulas & other resources

 

 

Full SBD Doula Listing

 

 

Important Tips for Parents

If you would like to be added to this list, please submit your information and it will be updated.  This website does not endorse (nor is it liable to) any individual or business, and contracts and arrangements will be made on an individual basis.

Wyoming Resources

 

Jessica Dube, SBD

Carolyn Spranger, SBD

Sarah Price, SBD

Full SBD Doula Listing

 

 

Doulas who’ve chosen to list with stillbirthday:

 

Doulas (certified through Cascade, CBI, DONA, CAPPA or other organization)

Photographers

Volunteers

Farewell Support

Important Tips for Parents

If you would like to be added to this list, please submit your information and it will be updated.  This website does not endorse (nor is it liable to) any individual or business, and contracts and arrangements will be made on an individual basis.

Wisconsin Resources


Amber Hall, SBD

Christelle Hagen, SBD

Nika Michaels, SBD

Alli Ryan, SBD

Tiffany Wogsland, SBD

Hazel Flint, SBD

Melody Wunderlin, SBD (South Central WI)

Samantha Kropp, SBD (North East WI)

Full SBD Doula Listing

Doulas who’ve chosen to list with stillbirthday:

 

Doulas (certified through Cascade, CBI, DONA, CAPPA or other organization)

Photographers

Volunteers

Farewell Support

Important Tips for Parents

If you would like to be added to this list, please submit your information and it will be updated.  This website does not endorse (nor is it liable to) any individual or business, and contracts and arrangements will be made on an individual basis.

West Virginia Resources

Natalie Burley, SBD

Michele Zahniser, SBD

Jenifer Richmond, SBD

Full SBD Doula Listing

 

 

 

Doulas who’ve chosen to list with stillbirthday:

 

Doulas (certified through Cascade, CBI, DONA, CAPPA or other organization)

Photographers

Volunteers

Farewell Support

Important Tips for Parents

If you would like to be added to this list, please submit your information and it will be updated.  This website does not endorse (nor is it liable to) any individual or business, and contracts and arrangements will be made on an individual basis.

Washington Resources

Monica Skimming, SBD
Jenn Boelter, SBD
Quincey Anderson, SBD
Heather Pucheu, SBD
Melisa Cantrell, SBD
Natasha Crouch, SBD
Bethe Smith, SBD
Bonnie Seagrove, SBD
Ricki Dunlap, SBD
BrittanyLawrence, SBD
Kristin Alvarez, SBD
Full SBD Doula Listing

 

Doulas who’ve chosen to list with stillbirthday: Doulas (certified through Cascade, CBI, DONA, CAPPA or other organization)

Photographers

Volunteers

Farewell Support

Important Tips for Parents

If you would like to be added to this list, please submit your information and it will be updated.  This website does not endorse (nor is it liable to) any individual or business, and contracts and arrangements will be made on an individual basis.

Virginia Resources

Melodie Miller, SBD

Janelle Repp, SBD

Laura Ricketts, SBD

Michelle Murphy, SBD

Kristina Seymour, SBD

Katie Tolbert, SBD

Lesley Carney, SBD

Cara Blaylock, SBD

Victoria Snyder, SBD

Rose Quintilian, SBD

Katherine Eltzroth, SBD

Melissa Nakaishi, SBD

Mandolin Restivo-Walsh, SBD

Angela Hovda, SBD (Northern Virginia)

Sarah Anne Johnson, SBD (Southwest Virginia)

Full SBD Doula Listing

 

Doulas who’ve chosen to list with stillbirthday:

 

Doulas (certified through Cascade, CBI, DONA, CAPPA or other organization)

Photographers

Volunteers

Farewell Support

Important Tips for Parents

If you would like to be added to this list, please submit your information and it will be updated.  This website does not endorse (nor is it liable to) any individual or business, and contracts and arrangements will be made on an individual basis.

Vermont Resources

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Karen Hovsepian, SBD

Full SBD Doula Listing

 

 

 

Doulas who’ve chosen to list with stillbirthday:

Doulas (certified through Cascade, CBI, DONA, CAPPA or other organization)

Photographers

Volunteers

Farewell Support

Important Tips for Parents

If you would like to be added to this list, please submit your information and it will be updated.  This website does not endorse (nor is it liable to) any individual or business, and contracts and arrangements will be made on an individual basis.

The SBD® Doula provides support to families experiencing birth in any trimester and in any outcome.

Here at stillbirthday.info, you can learn about the SBD® Doula.